Monday, January 6, 2014

How to Make a Change

Changes will always have a space in you. Only when you allow it to change you. Maybe not perfectly but somehow will do. Changes at first is a total hardship for life but as time goes by, circumstances around you will make sense with the message it's really trying to convey. And it feels great to find it out after so.

In the midst of all the struggles, wisdom comes in and out of mind to enable you in defining life. None of it comes just as smoothly as you want them to be. Life should be a balance or you'll get a hell of life struggles, otherwise.

In the last part, still you will win. Not in a sense of competition but in trying to develop your life than how it was before. It's more than  a blessing when accomplished. Just always take time to hear the core of yourself and see what happens from then on.


People have their own problems to make minor changes on some life aspects which could make major changes the hardest. Hopefully you can be guided by the following.

1. Know what needs to be changed. Decide from how you act and feel about certain socialization around you. Know what you like and you don't like about yourself. Take them out, be sure if it has to be taken out and then proceed.

2. Think of the possible hindrances. There are reasons to why changes aren't done and make things even harder to do. Figure out those things that make you hold back. It can be your will or time management. It would be easier to do things when you understand it.

3. Plan your life. Know what you need to do from A-Z and draw a line to where you're going. Ask yourself if what you're trying to do is worth achieving and take it form there.

4. Set new habits. Do which that would reinforce you to your goals and to all the choices you made for the plan.

5. Work on it. Work hard on what you want to achieve. Do not give up in all the steps you take.

Changes don't take place when you give up from time to time of every start. You have to be certain of what you want to happen in your life to make progress. Things would be harder to break than it was before soon as you can establish a new  changed and determined person in you.


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Thursday, January 2, 2014

How To Start The Year Right

Each year comes with a new year's resolution, by tradition. Not actually for everybody and not all of which can be achieved but is all attainable when being worked out by all means. Any of these could be possibly carried out so let's start off!

1. Love Yourself. Treat yourself more often this time. Don't allow anyone to keep stepping on you. You were born to be you and not for how people wants you to be. You only live once. Make the most out of it!

2. Be Open.Keep your mind open. Don't be too discrete on things. People are around you are alive for a purpose. You just have to trust the right ones or you will be thrown out in the open.

3. Eat less, work more. Manage every meal intake. Don't over eat to be able to work for more. Too much food makes you lazy for sometimes being dizzy. Take care!

4. Work smart, not hard. Don't work hard without being smart. Things will only work if well-thought-out. Don't waste time. Thinking should not consume your life.

5. Pray and forgive always. Pray for everybody, even your worst enemy. Forgive them and yourself for having them accordingly. If God can forgive, there's no reason for you to not.

6. Be determined and courageous. Don't just look at your goals. To be courageous means to be of wisdom on what life wants you to realize in every test. Problems come with a solution. Just be in that moment and feel it. It will all pass. Do what it takes to succeed on each and you'll have it in time meant for you.

7. Have strength. Don't allow life lessons to weaken you. It doesn't exist for you to take it otherwise. Things happen for a reason and not to poison. Rise and shine. It's never too late to pick up the pieces.

8. Be a fighter. Don't allow people to underestimate you for how they think about you. Not everybody deserves your goodness and respect. Let them have what they deserve for what it's worth.

9. Be honest. The truth shall set you free. Be honest on what you can only achieve and work hard to accomplish it. It's best defined when done.

10. Keep the faith. God never leaves your side. You just have to let Him do what he does in guiding you through life. Call him, praise him and do what you have to do. There's always an end to every tunnel.


Life is a roller coaster ride. It goes up and it goes down from time to time. Don't linger on what should be left behind. Move on with your head up high and be as you were with a new perspective through the life lessons you have obtained. The past is not the loss of the future. Make it an inspiration to keep going and you'll get there soon.
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Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Keep On Moving...2014

This year is a total blast! 


2013 has been the most wonderful year I've gone through so far, in my life. It has not been very good to me, but I have seen the good in it in spite of everything. The adolescent life has come and there's no turning back. Physically, emotionally and spiritually for the most part is the struggles of this year and I had to face it, away from my family. It's more than enough to learn the lesson I should learn. Therefore, it has made me suffer enough to realize what its like in the real world without your parents's assistance, by choice.

It was mid this year when the most challenging time of my life came due to some financial problems for it was a real crisis for me. With the help of God and the helping people around me, I was able to push myself to the limits and survived building a positive outlook out of it. For all the preaching, book knowledge and other life-teaching circumstances, thank you! It was with deepest regret to have involved those people but it was better than involving my parents. I made all these problems and I should face all the consequences without them. Not because they can't help but because they deserve to be problem-free after all. Besides, I should be on my own now and should be able to do whatever it takes to solve things my way.

Thanks and Apologies

Thank God to have made me become a better person in all these problems.

Thank you to the lending people who gave me their assistance in facing all the financial battles. Words are not enough to describe how thankful I am for having you. I will pray for you and your forgiveness on my failure.

Thank you for those who did not stay in my life until 2014, I'm glad to have known your worth without more ado. I will pray for you, too. And I forgive you.

I'm sorry to have bothered you on my stubborn self. I'm sorry to my parents and family that I always take for granted. I will not just say it. Instead will do it to make things up with you. Lastly, I am very sorry to myself for making you suffer until now. I will love you more this 2014.


Message to 2014:

I won't pray for everything to be just fine. I can only pray for everything to be better and prosperous!

Happy New Year!







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