Wednesday, December 18, 2013

How to Be Strong


Why do others survive difficulty and why do others don’t? Life’s adversities have never immune people on coping up and recovering from the most exhausting condition. For your own mental, physical and spiritual development, you might want to try and follow the following suggestions.

Be strong, in mind. Being strong implies power and having care on one’s own life. Weakness, on the other hand implies on having no power and being vulnerable. In whatever case, there are really things you can and can’t control. But you can focus on other things to make the situation better. Accept things as they are and focus yourself on what’s good for you.

Choose the attitude. We can sometimes be helpless on doing changes in our lives for things can really be challenging. However, you can still be in control on that matter depending on the attitude that you have. Just be positive as it’s the right thing to do at any given circumstances regardless of whatever it is.

For example, if a person is trying to make your life miserable, don’t let it sadden you. Instead, be proud, be hopeful and remember that no one could take away things from you with the right attitude. Remember what Roosevelt said? “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”

Find your passion in life. People with strong emotions see each day as a gift. They always try to take advantage of what life has to offer. Be mentally and emotionally strong like when you were still a kid and get the most out of it.

Believe in yourself. If you have made it this far, then you can make it through more things. If you take things one at a time, you can then survive what you are going through. Nothing is easy but when you think you’re falling apart, just close your eyes and breathe deeply.

Be wise in choosing your battles. Ask yourself if every little thing should exasperate you. Try not to worry about anything else. Remember what Sylvia Robinson said, “Some people think it’s holding on that makes one strong but sometimes it’s all about  letting go.”

Be with the people that's closest to you. Spend time with the people who love you and are close to your heart. It can be your friends, family and anybody else who have always been supportive on you. If there seem to be no available person, you can make new friends and do the approach.

Keep the balance in your life. It sounds easy, isn't  it? It’s always overlooked for it can hardly be done. We can either be hardworking or sometimes lack time for self-preservation. But when you get a good balance on things, you will start to appreciate things for what it’s worth.

Give thanks for what you have. Life is hard but there’s always something to thank for. Even if happy things have already gone, there are still more to appreciate. It will push you through the hard times so be thankful for it. You might not have the money but you have all the support that you need from the people who love you. It’s more than anything in this world. So think about that.

Don’t be too serious on things. Life could sometimes be made as a comedy. Wrapping things up could never be easy but taking a step back and be more philosophical can be more romantic. You must be happy on the limitless possibilities, wonders and absurdity that life gives you.

Nothing is permanent, keep that in mind. Let sadness, depression or grief, happen. Those things are uncontrollable. Whenever things happen, remember that in time, it will pass and everything will be okay.

Make it a must for hardships to not take over your life. Don’t behave incorrectly on the circumstances you face each day. It won’t help you get the problem solved. Have your own attitude control the side effects of life for things to be better or your whole life will be controlled with your consent.

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